Category: Wellness

  • Stop Worrying About Money: What a Tapas Bar in Spain Can Teach You

    Now, you don’t have to be some sort of vagabond seeing the entire world. You don’t have to go to the hippest places, either. Heck, you don’t even need to go to another country—although it is definitely worth it! I think the best part of traveling is simply taking in the sights, smells, sounds, and culture of where you’re visiting.

    For me, it’s always a good reminder that people everywhere live exciting and fulfilled lives, and they do it completely differently than I do. You see, we humans get caught up in our little bubble lives. Yes, that’s right! You live in a bubble, just like everyone else. Your friends, family, work, and where you live all contribute to your lifestyle and what you do on a daily basis. This isn’t a bad thing at all. Generally, it feels good to have a routine and know what’s going to happen next. For example, I love to have a cup of coffee, followed by a cup of bone broth in the morning, and then a workout. It’s my go-to routine.

    At the same time, while routine is great, spicing it up every now and then makes a world of difference. When I travel and see other cultures and other ways of living, it opens my mind up to new possibilities and thoughts. For example, how important is investing to someone living their fullest life in Spain? As I sit at a tapas bar overflowing with life, or at a beautiful scenic coffee shop where people are enjoying an afternoon coffee, I wonder: Do the things that have meaning to me have meaning to them? Do they know what stocks or index funds are? Do they understand compounding interest? Is financial independence even a thing there?

    It makes me ask myself if the things I value even matter as much. On a daily basis, I might be worrying about an underperforming stock or what asset I should invest in next. This artificial worry over my money can sometimes have negative consequences. What if I were surrounded by a culture that didn’t really think much about money like I do? Would I be more content and fulfilled as a human? Or do I have it all backward, and those people living their best lives at the tapas bar worry just as much, but in an entirely different way?

    Perhaps the worry is how they’re going to sustain their lifestyles. Maybe it’s not as glamorous as an observer would think. There could be less opportunity in other countries to save and invest, so people have no choice but to have fun at the moment. Maybe that actually is a giant worry after the epic night is over and all your friends are gone. Perhaps it’s a coping mechanism because it’s harder to get ahead.

    I honestly have no clue. I’d have to interview every single person to truly find out. What I can tell you is that getting out of my bubble and experiencing new people and new cultures makes me think about how I’m living my life. It’s a refresher course telling me to not think about my investments so much. Instead, I should be enjoying TODAY with the people I love. When I travel or do something different, I always get a reboot and examine my life and what I prioritize. Remember, routine is amazing, but every now and then, you’ve got to break the routine to get in touch with your mind and perform a systems check. Figure out what’s really important, and what’s just background noise!

  • Tomorrow is never guaranteed

    Investor Fella here

    Sep 21 2025

    Tomorrow’s just another day, right? It can wait. How easily we take it all for granted. I’ve put off making a podcast, starting a new business, and making new friends. I’ve put off being a better partner, getting more fit, and becoming a better version of myself.

    Why do we put things off? It’s incredibly easy to take time for granted, to think we have an endless supply. During my career as a firefighter and paramedic, I saw way too many things that made no sense. I saw young people die tragically, and I saw fellow friends and coworkers die in the line of duty. I saw cancer take a friend in less than a year. So, if anyone should know that tomorrow is never guaranteed, it’s me.

    But it’s not that simple. As humans, we love to get complacent and fall into a routine. We tend to think that tomorrow will be just like today. I’ve fallen into this trap; I’m guilty of it. That’s why it’s important to take a moment to reflect on your life from time to time. Celebrate your achievements and never stop reaching for new goals. If tomorrow isn’t guaranteed, what would you do differently? Would you have the courage to do that one thing you’ve always wanted to do? Reminding yourself that tomorrow is not guaranteed can have a profound effect on your actions. Choosing to do things now, instead of at some imaginary date, will make you a stronger person.

    Even though I sometimes forget, I know that tomorrow is not guaranteed. It’s the reason I’ve learned how to invest, bought a sailboat, and left a cushy career. I’m playing the long game in life, but I’m also hyper-aware that we humans can do some badass things if we just put our minds to it. One of my greatest motivators is always trying to be a better version of myself. If tomorrow isn’t guaranteed, I’m sure as hell not waiting for perfection to put something new out there. That also means it’s not worth worrying so much about what friends, family, and other people think of you. All that matters is that you’re getting after it! Profound change happens in tiny increments. Every day that passes is wasted potential. Don’t waste that beautiful potential bucket.

    There’s a world full of potential filled people. There’s only a handful that actually reach that potential.

    Which one will you be?

     

    Until next time

    Jorge